Baby Essentials for First-Time Moms: What You Actually Need

Hey, Momma!

If you’re anything like I was when I found out I was expecting, you’ve probably already fallen down the rabbit hole of baby checklists and Pinterest must-haves. It can feel a little overwhelming, right? Like, do I really need five different types of swaddles and a fancy wipe warmer? Nope.

After going through it myself and now with a toddler and twins in tow, I wanted to sit down and share the real, honest list of baby essentials you’ll actually use as a first-time mom. Nothing extra, nothing super fancy, just the stuff that will make those first few months a little easier for both you and your sweet new baby.

A Good Stash of Diapers and Wipes

Newborns go through so many diapers. Honestly, I thought people were exaggerating; they weren’t. You don’t need to stock up on a million newborn-size diapers, though, because babies grow fast. I found it helpful to have a few packs of newborn and more of size 1 on hand.

If you're looking for trusted picks, we used Huggies Diapers and loved them. Super gentle on baby's skin!
For wipes, Huggies Natural Care Baby Wipes are awesome and they don't have that heavy fragrance some wipes do.

Pro Tip: Always pack more diapers than you think you’ll need when you leave the house. Trust me.

Simple Onesies and Sleepers

You’ll hear about the cutest outfits, but in the early days? Comfort and easy changes win. Get a good mix of zip-up sleepers because snaps at 2 AM = no thanks and basic onesies. You’ll be doing laundry more than you think, so it’s okay to stock up a little here.

A Swaddle (Or Two)

Babies are like little Houdinis when it comes to swaddles. I loved the easy Velcro or zipper ones because they were way easier in the middle of the night.

One of my favorites was the 3-Pack Organic Baby Swaddle Sleep Sacks. They are so soft, breathable, and perfect for sleepy little burritos.

A Sturdy, Easy-to-Use Car Seat

If there’s one splurge you’ll never regret, it’s a safe, reliable car seat. Look for one that’s easy to install because trust me, you don’t want to be wrestling with confusing straps at the hospital parking lot when you’re exhausted and emotional.

Feeding Supplies (Even if You’re Planning to Breastfeed)

Whether you’re breastfeeding, bottle-feeding, or a little bit of both, having some supplies ready will save you a lot of last-minute stress. Think:

• Nursing pillow

• Burp cloths (you can never have too many)

• A few bottles to try

We loved Dr. Brown's Anti-Colic Bottles,  they really helped with gas!
Philips Avent Anti-Colic Bottles are another great option lots of my mom friends swear by.

A Place for Baby to Sleep

Whether it’s a bassinet, crib, or pack 'n play, you’ll want a safe, flat sleeping spot for baby. We kept ours right next to the bed at first, and it made those every-two-hour feedings way easier.

If you’re looking for something sturdy and comfy, I highly recommend the Chicco Lullago Portable Bassinet. It's lightweight, easy to move, super cozy and cheaper.

Basic Health and Grooming Kit

Think baby nail clippers. Their nails are sharp! A gentle thermometer, a nasal aspirator (the hospital might give you one), and baby-safe lotion. You won’t need the whole medicine aisle, just the basics to start.

Baby Carrier or Wrap

Life-saver. Especially if you have things to do. Babies love being close, and it keeps your hands free for coffee or just getting stuff done around the house. Plus, it’s the sweetest feeling having them snuggled right up against you.

Stroller

You don't need the fanciest one out there. Just something that’s easy to fold, fits in your car, and has good storage underneath for diaper bags, snacks, and your sanity.

A Diaper Bag You Actually Like

You’re going to carry it around a lot. Find one that’s roomy, has a few good pockets, and feels comfortable. Bonus points if it looks cute, you deserve it!

I personally love the PILLANI Baby Diaper Bag Backpack. It's durable, stylish, and has so many pockets for all the little things you’ll end up needing (and a few you didn’t know you would!).

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At the end of the day, the real essential is YOU. Your love, your snuggles, and your voice, that’s what your baby needs most. The rest? Just little tools to help you along the way.

Don’t stress about having everything perfect. Babies don't need perfect, they just need you.

You’ve got this. 💪
And if you ever want to swap mom hacks, I’m your girl.

-The Inspired Momma

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